Double Standards?

This is so true.
Some girls expect their boyfriends or their partner to spend on them and some even go to the extend of treating their boyfriends as a ATM machine. 
They speak about double standards and women rights and yet they are the ones who hold on firmly to the double standard thing.
It's so sickening to see girls who keep asking their boyfriends/partner to buy this and that for them and they keep taking and taking and taking.


I don't believe in that. 
In fact, I strongly believe that if I want something I'll work for it.
I don't mind my partner spending on me since I don't mind spending on him if I can afford to,
But I don't demand that he should buy me this and that. 
It's like buying my affection. 
And spending on someone should be a sincere gesture since being a student with no proper job yet and surviving on my allowance every month, 
I know how hard it is to save money and have enough money for things that you like.
So yes, when I spend on someone, it always mean that they mean alot to me=) 
And unlike some girls I know who keep taking, 
I believe in sharing, taking, and giving. 


Personally, I know girls who marry their partners just because their partners are capable to be their lifetime ATM machine. 
Although my mother usually use that "Ask your boyfriend to get you this and that" or "It's not like he can afford it" against me (yes, it's annoying).
I've learned to ignore her shallow criticism. 
Since I know I can earn and save my own cash to get what I want. 
Plus I am not a materialistic person. 
I like branded items but I can't afford it. Maybe one day I can but not now. So I don't really care =) 

And I respect my partner as much as he respects me.
Treating your partner as an ATM machine and showing him affection just because he buys you expensive stuff is just cheap affection. 
I don't even treat my parents as an ATM machine since I've been brought up to earn for what I want.. 

So girls/ladies/women...

Stop going on an on about meeting prince charming and wanting to marry a rich man who can splurge on you. 
Unless you love yourself and respect yourself don't sit around and wait for prince charming to buy your diamonds and a Shitty Vuitton bags. 
Don't make yourself cheap by dating a rich guy just because he can spend so much on you.
If your partner wants to spend on you why not he just wants to treat you once a while,
But DON'T DEMAND for it. 
It's disgusting. 
Just because you are born with a vagina or tits that doesn't mean you can be a free loader.


I am proud to admit that, in my current relationship there is a lot of sharing, giving, and also taking. 

And of course, no double standards =)