Rants 101

I've not rant for ages! And I feel like ranting=)

So bear with me*smiles*

So today is my first time visiting the graveyard for the Qing Ming season. And my my, I must say the Chinese has such weird tradition that they practice till today. Not only I find the tradition very sexist and very degrading to the women race, but I find it a waste of resource and it pollutes the air. To think today is earth day. There they go burning paper phones, clothes, and some even burn Iphone 4 for their ancestors. It's fine if you want to pay your respect to your ancestors but those unnecessary open burnings will only kill mother nature. My bestie's sis once suggested them to burn their phone numbers so that their ancestors can call them back from their after life. Like why not right? Since they are burning cars, houses, passport, and money for them.

So there's this ceremony where the males in the family have to throw some colour papers on the grave and I also notice that no females are allowed to do so. And mom said something like this to me :

Mom: Only the males in the family are allowed to do so.

Which I replied:

Me : Why? Because they are the sperm donors and we only have ovaries?

Mom : Shhhhhh! You are not supposed to say that here!!

Owh so, as a female we are not supposed to voice out our opinions in family functions like that eh? As a token of "respect" to them. Do they even deserve out respect anyway? They didn't even acknowledge the existence and the vital role of the women folks in the family. Which brings me to the part where one of my relative who looked joyfully at brother and read his palm and then mentioned something about him having good luck in life or something. In which my mom replied:

Mom : Well my daughters are doing well too.

Old man : *Dismiss my mother* Ah! Daughters are not important. I am asking about your son! How many sons you have?

Mom : One *pointed at my brother*

Old Man : Only one!? Then you have two daughters!? What a waste!

Mom : Well it's the same for daughters.

So daughters are not important eh? I doubt your male grandchildren are doing as well as the females anyway. Look at the men in the family. How many of them grow up to be real men who doesn't drink and respect their wives? Most of them ended up two timing their wives or find an easy way out by using the money that you earn instead of working.

I asked my mom where did he come from anyway? Cause in my mind I really thought he came from his dad's anus (which resulted him to having crap as his brain, or having a skull filled with air). My mom shush me up since I am not allowed to question stuff like that. Again, she plea ignorance and submission since we as a women don't really have a say in the family. Maybe my mom don't want to cause any complication since it's not like those uncivilized traditional thinking old folks will get what I am trying to convey anyway.

But then again, there is no reason for him to degrade women just like that since the women folks are the ones who contributed so much to the family and most of the younger generations they are the ones who are the breadwinner of the family and the ones who managed to complete their education.

I hope to God that men like this will learn to treat women equally before they are on their death bed. Which reminds me of the video that I watched last night. So this leader from a political party were going on and on about women who don't know how to look after themselves well (for instance, covering themselves properly from head to toe), deserved to be rape since they are the ones who causes men to get out of control (as in not being able to keep their dicks to themselves). In other words, that conniving old man, were defending the rapist out there by blaming it on the victim for looking too good to the men's eyes. I can't finish watching the video anyway since everything that came out from his shit gap were pure nonsense and he's a disgrace to mankind. Actually strike that out, he's a disgrace to all men out there. Just because men cannot control their desires that doesn't give them the rights to force themselves into any women who appeared to be attractive to their eyes. Even dogs know how to pick their mates=.=

What I can't stand most is when these, wait. I am thinking of a word to address such..urhmm..creatures? Anyway, such species on earth used God's name in vain to defend their lust and to get women to submit to the stuff that they want women to do for them making God look bad.*shakes head*

Oh well, we shall see what other stuff that these uncivilized creatures can come out with. And regardless of how old they are, I have no respect for men who can't treat women right. Even my dad with a traditional mind set treats my mom like a queen. He'll be damned if he doesn't treat the women right. I know of real men who know how to treat women equally. Although there are many exceptional cases, but really, having something sticking out from below doesn't make males more powerful due to their "weapon" or useful if they don't know how to put their brains in use and look at things at a various perspective.